INFJ

Just some quotes--- things I read about my personality type. These are mostly about how my type relates to others. If you know me they will probably make you smile because of how true they are. I feel a little silly putting so much stock in a personality test... but it's so right!

(Introverted, Intuitive, Feeling, Judging)

Comprises 1% (or less) of the population, making it the most rare of the 16 types.

-In conflict, INFJs tend to waver between expression and repression. They are very sensitive to correction and conflict and are often discouraged or disillusioned by disagreements.
-Shy and reserved, INFJs may be read as cold or judgemental, but they are geniunely warm and caring people who value interpersonal relationships and have an incredible depth of emotion.
-INFJs will judge the outcome of their decisions before they have made them, and act for the desired result.
-In close, trusting relationships INFJs are capable of being sincere and open-- but usually on their own terms. They will share what they want, how and when they choose to, and nothing more.
-Trust is of the utmost importance to an INFJ. Because of this, they will shut down as soon as they begin to feel uncomfortable or insecure.
-INFJs long for the perfect relationship- both with lovers and friends. They are good friends themselves and expect as much from others. Because of their high expectations they can be often and easily disappointed. Intensely loyal, they seek lifelong relationships, and a true connection is of the utmost value to an INFJ.
-Because they are easily misunderstood by other types (and because this feeling is incredibly painful for an INFJ), they tend to be quiet and withdrawn. They are deep and complex, and typically difficult to understand. They can seem unpredictable to those who do not know them very well.
-Above all else, their desire is to be understood and valued as they are. This hunger of the INFJ is rarely satisfied due to their secretive nature. Successful relationships with INFJs require intentional interest in core values, religious beliefs (if they have them), and thought processes. Expressing interest in these things assures an INFJ that they are loved and valued, the way they love and value others.